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    May 18

    Got The (Big) Picture?

    Current Mood: A little less idiotic.

    Today's Lesson: Make sure you see the whole picture before reacting on only a part of it.

     

    When looking at things, you need to have the whole picture to really get it. Having even the slightest part covered up or ignored will leave you with a distorted view, something not as reliable. For instance, take a piece of paper and draw the letter A on it. Now take your hand and cover up half of it. What once was a legible letter has now been reduced to merely a line. Such is life.

    How often do we judge a situation based on a part or piece of the whole puzzle? How accurate can that judgment be? If we are failing to see the whole picture, we are setting ourselves up for what could prove to be a big mistake. Acting on just a piece of information usually proves to be the wrong thing to do. So often, I find myself running with what little info I get and it never fails...I end up looking like an idiot. To make the right decision, you must have all the facts, not just what you can get at the moment. It takes quite a bit of patience as the whole picture isn't usually thrown in your lap at once, but it takes time. You have to gather all the information, bit by bit before you go acting on it. This is a lesson I'm learning slowly, but the important thing is that I'm learning it. No more snap decisions based on an ounce of information for me because quite frankly, I'm tired of looking like an idiot.

    -Jamie

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    Alba Bwrote:
    Parenting is a great example.  Knowing your facts = less drama.  Great to see you again Jamie!  Hope you have a great weekend!
    Aug. 11
    Janetwrote:
    Too, true!!
     
    Happy Weekend!!
     
    Janet
    May 19
    Great entry; I tend to rush into things too & it's never a good thing.
     
    Hope you have a great weekend!
    May 19
    qi zhangwrote:
    This is just what I need most for the time being. I should get myself out of rush . Thanks for such a good lesson. Take care and have a nice weekend.
    May 19
    So true Jamie.  I have always made snap decisions based on an ounce of information.  I guess it is part of my personality, I just don't have patience for anything and always have to go with either black or white, not grey.  Until last weekend, I almost made the biggest mistake of my life because of the snap decision habit thingy.  Luckily I realized I had bad habit and was able to control my temper early enough to not ruin everything.
    May 18
    Johnwrote:
    I guess I'm behind in things but I have to ask: Who is Jenna and why is she on your site? 
    May 18
    Alba Bwrote:
    Hear, hear!  I agree.  I have to admit that I use what I call the "rattlesnake" approach.  I strike first then ask questions later.  A move that has made me look like an idiot on more than one occasion.  But do I learn?  Sometimes.  I try not approach situations like that but sometimes it happens without my realizing it until its too late.
     
    Thank you for your compliment on my blog *blushing*.  It is very difficult for me to see myself as an inspiration - it is humbling to know the effect that I have on some people. 
     
    I meant to ask how your grandmother was.  I seem to remember that your last post before you left, you had mentioned that she was ill. 
     
    Have a fantastic day!  *hugs*
    May 18
    Michaelwrote:
    Hey Jaime...most people don't weigh through all info before reacting to things as most decisions are based on emotions and with this sometimes logic gets thrown out the window...human nature, we all do it...
     
    And so we are back to pink??  Should have known a girly girl couldn't stay green!!haha
     
    Take care,
     
    Michael
    May 18
    Cwrote:
    so true,,, I am nearly a professional in that feild ,, unfortunately most times if there is  a decision to be made you are going to have to jump in and make  the decision based on what you know,,, and hope for the best,, personally I just try to preface my decisions in such a way  that it s obvious  they are MINE and  no one else's ,, at least that way if I am wrong it's just me  that looks bad,,,if I'm right ,,, well everybody wants  to share  that
    May 18

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